nalaman mo na merong kabit ang tatay

[Jon]

dear charo ( ba ito? ) peace!

seriousness noted:

if more than two thats too  much already.

[marvinofthefaintsmile]

^^ darkstar, it's ok to confess...,

hmm... i think wala namang kabit si tatay..,

merong kabit si lolo.. pero ok nmn kame ng mistress nya.,
me kabit c tito.. pero yoko xa pautangin. kapal muks.
me kabit c tita. pero don't care aq sa kaniya.,

[Luc]

^^I can relate.

My dad had a mistress. He was kicked out of the house for like 2 years, and I was still in high school then.

I brought the role of being the "man" of the house to myself at 14 years old. After all, I was the eldest guy that remained at home.

But to cut the story short, my mom welcomed him back. They have sort of reconciled. But they never slept in the same room again. And they never had the same "trusting" relationship again. But they're civil.

Pero sa akin? di pa. I've never brought it up with him. And I'm seeing my behavior towards him is not very nice.

I am aware of this, and how biased my treatment to him is. After all, galit talaga ako sa kanya nuon. Pero I just have to forgive him, and forget the past. There's no use crying over spilled milk. After all, parang alam naman niya maling ginawa niya.

[marvinofthefaintsmile]

i remember.. dati prang me ganitong away ang mga parents ko.., and that my father was jealous about someone.. then after all that shouting.. they had sex.., Duh?! weird parents..

[marvinofthefaintsmile]

^^I can relate.

My dad had a mistress. He was kicked out of the house for like 2 years, and I was still in high school then.

I brought the role of being the "man" of the house to myself at 14 years old. After all, I was the eldest guy that remained at home.

But to cut the story short, my mom welcomed him back. They have sort of reconciled. But they never slept in the same room again. And they never had the same "trusting" relationship again. But they're civil.

Pero sa akin? di pa. I've never brought it up with him. And I'm seeing my behavior towards him is not very nice.

I am aware of this, and how biased my treatment to him is. After all, galit talaga ako sa kanya nuon. Pero I just have to forgive him, and forget the past. There's no use crying over spilled milk. After all, parang alam naman niya maling ginawa niya.

sad naman Luc.. Well, perhaps I couldn't really blame you of having some tensions with your father..,

[Luc]

sad naman Luc.. Well, perhaps I couldn't really blame you of having some tensions with your father..,

Oo kahit alam ko dapat din ako mag-iba ... mag-adjust ... pero mahirap.

Bago siya pinabalik sa amin, may sinama siya na 1year old isang araw sa bahay. Ipinakilala niya ito sa akin as - my brother... -_-

[Luc]

^^^I know it's tempting to run away from situations. Pero I'm old enough to deal with this. Not old enough to deal with myself, though.

[marvinofthefaintsmile]

^^ well.. we are talking about life in here.. be happy n lng na u have a new brother..,

[pinoybrusko]

nice share darkstar. Thanks. I just felt lucky I did not experience that.

Ako, if meron man kabit ang tatay, I don't care. As long as he comes home with my mom and with the same amount of money given to her every month nung wala pang kabit  no issue for me hehehe

[jeku]

d mo naman masasabi na "I dont care" youre in that situation...seeing youre mother cry in front of you...digesting the situation...etc...mahirap at first...

[Lanchie]

i remember.. dati prang me ganitong away ang mga parents ko.., and that my father was jealous about someone.. then after all that shouting.. they had sex.., Duh?! weird parents..

that's not really strange.

[Lanchie]

oh. and my mom IS the kabit.

[joshgroban]

deep breath muna... hehe... there are things na nangyayari sa buhay natin ... sa parents natin na di natin totally naiintindihan... bakit nambabae ang tatay or may iba ang nanay... kids talaga ang nag su suffer but at the end of the day .we have our own life to live...we just have to extend our forgiveness sa kanila and learn from theor mistakes... bitterness and anger will not help specially pag pinatatagal natin...tayo rin ang mahihirapan...lets just hope and pray na di tayo makagawa ng ganung pagkakamali balang araw o kung makagawa man matutunan din nating patawarin mang ating mga sarili

[jelo kid]

^may pinaghuhugutan?

[joshgroban]

di naman.. malawak lang ang pang unawa ko dito hehe