May bestfriend ka ba?

[Ryker]

pag kaibigan kasi ang hanap sana hanggang dun lang, yung iba kasi kuwari kaibigan ang hanap pero may malisya naman pala. Alam namin ang mga nangyayari dito at yung ibang old pgg members nagtatanong din regarding sa mga baguhang members. Madali naman makahanap ng kaibigan dito pero sabi ko nga sana hanggang dun lang

Paanong may malisya? Anong mga pangyayaring hindi nalalantad dito?

[Ryker]

How would you know if someone is treating you as his best friend?

For some they say it explicitly.

But it is unclear to those where no one initiates to ask.
but they are acting too close to each other

Ang wagas at tunay na pagkakaibigan ay pinapanday at sinusubok ng panahon.

If you love your friend in his worst, you deserve in his best. That's genuine friendship.

[coxxxz]

^ i see your point. Thanks.

But what i am actually referring is the mark that you are his bestfriend, and he is your bestfriend.

Somehow i know that it's too mean, because it appears that an individual is possesive if it means that way. However it is how it really works. Quite not sure

[sayonara]

^ i see your point. Thanks.

But what i am actually referring is the mark that you are his bestfriend, and he is your bestfriend.

Somehow i know that it's too mean, because it appears that an individual is possesive if it means that way. However it is how it really works. Quite not sure

Just like how Asus bashed Apple for touting its 3D Touch feature on the iPhone 6s/6s plus, "Don't Force It."

Best friends, unlike any other social relationships you have, are like water streams. They flow smoothly, without any "pilit" factor or "masabing may best friend lang" effect. Best friends are basically soul mates, the heterosexual kind, and they transcend mere boundaries of hobbies, interests, or likes. Best friends are never superficial; they have such deep connection that even though they have other close friends of they own, at the end of the day, "sila at sila pa rin." Lastly, best friends are more than just a label; they are the continuum in which your soul resides when your own body is weakened.

You don't have to force it. If it's him and it's you, it would eventually find its way to work out, with the visibility and assurance you're looking for becoming more apparent to the world.

Hahaha and yes, personal experience. We're like brothers! More than, in fact! We're just us, having two working minds that are totally opposites of each other. lol

[Ryker]

^ i see your point. Thanks.

But what i am actually referring is the mark that you are his bestfriend, and he is your bestfriend.

Somehow i know that it's too mean, because it appears that an individual is possesive if it means that way. However it is how it really works. Quite not sure

Just like how Asus bashed Apple for touting its 3D Touch feature on the iPhone 6s/6s plus, "Don't Force It."

Best friends, unlike any other social relationships you have, are like water streams. They flow smoothly, without any "pilit" factor or "masabing may best friend lang" effect. Best friends are basically soul mates, the heterosexual kind, and they transcend mere boundaries of hobbies, interests, or likes. Best friends are never superficial; they have such deep connection that even though they have other close friends of they own, at the end of the day, "sila at sila pa rin." Lastly, best friends are more than just a label; they are the continuum in which your soul resides when your own body is weakened.

You don't have to force it. If it's him and it's you, it would eventually find its way to work out, with the visibility and assurance you're looking for becoming more apparent to the world.

Hahaha and yes, personal experience. We're like brothers! More than, in fact! We're just us, having two working minds that are totally opposites of each other. lol

Thanks, @Sayonara, for well-explaination of how best friendship really works.

I reqoute " Best Friend are basically soul mates, the heterosexual kind . . ."
Kaya nga may nalikhang salita noong 1990s pa hinggil dito, at ito ang English word na "BROMANCE."

Before the word Bromance was invented, its real defintion exists throughout the ages.

Ang pagkakaibigan (close friend, good friend o best friend man 'yan o anong antas ng pagkakaibigan man 'yan), di talaga pinipilit.

Di pwedeng hinog sa pilit.

[Ryker]

^ i see your point. Thanks.

But what i am actually referring is the mark that you are his bestfriend, and he is your bestfriend.

Somehow i know that it's too mean, because it appears that an individual is possesive if it means that way. However it is how it really works. Quite not sure

In my opinion, may pagka-possesive talaga ang characteristics ng best friendship.

Saka "Best Friendship" is not just about label.

Mas malalaman mo kung ikaw talaga ang best friend niya, kung ikaw ang number one priority niya among his other friends.

Di ka man i-label na BFF niya, e kung ikaw ang top priority friend niya, still ikaw pa rin ang BFF niya by description.

P.S.
When we we're in college, pinagmalaki ako ng tinuturing ko ng lifetime best friend ngayon in front of the 3 sections sa isang retreat-like  gatheting. Di ko nga inaasahan iyon. He had been with me in rough and tough times. We're still connected to.each other. Kapatid na nga ang turing e.

[coxxxz]

Okay thank you for the ideas.

There are times that a bestfriend is possesive. You dont want to share the title to be called his bestfriend. May ganun talaga siguro

A lot of thanks for the answers. Haha

[Ryker]

Okay thank you for the ideas.

There are times that a bestfriend is possesive. You dont want to share the title to be called his bestfriend. May ganun talaga siguro

A lot of thanks for the answers. Haha

Possessive of entitlement to be called of one's best friend ba ang pinag-uusapan dito?

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Dalawa ang closest guy friends ko sa college. (1)Yung isa, tawagan namin ay best friend noong may closeness na kami. (2) At yung isa pa, tawag ko sa kanya ay best friend o kapatid, pero he never called me best friend, but somehow I am his number one priority friend. His GF and our circle of friends observe us that we have a deep connection to one another though he never called or labeled me as his BFF. Before our college was over, he confessed that I was (am) his male closest friend in his entire life. Kaya until now, we still meet ups, along with our college classmate-peers that are also our travel buddies.

[coxxxz]

I used to have a bestfriend but by call only. He also had bestfriend that time.

One time there's one activity and what he wrote was the name of the other one as his best friend. Though they never called each other bestfriend, they have chosen one another. Later that moment i never called him bestfriend anymore.

Next time i knew he called me bestfriend because they used me as an advantage to get the group project done. Fv*k that moment. I left that circle of friend.

I transfer block/section too. There i found a friend, a friends rather, not entitled to be bestfriend but i knew i am treated by them like that

[Ryker]

Kaya mas matimbang ang pagtrato kaysa sa titulo nsa best friend.

May mga tao kasing kinakaibigan ka lang dahil may gustong makuha sa iyo. And he is a fake friend.
You will know true friends when the tough times comres and he will never leave you when you love you at his worst. Not always in comfort, kasama hirap sa pagkakaibigan.

[coxxxz]

Yup

[Peps]

may ikukwento ako hehe...
Meron akong dalawang best friend since highschool bestfriend 1 saka bestfriend 2, pero actually sila talaga originally na mag best friend saling pusa lang ako hehe kasi naging ka close ko si best friend 1 kaya lagi din nya ako sinasama kaya nakakasama ko rin si bestfriend2. Pero nung una ayaw sakin ni bestfriend2 talagang ayaw nya sakin kasi magkaibang magkaiba ugali namin tapos we have nothing in common pa. Tahimik siya medyo maingay ako, tapos seryoso siya palabiro naman ako. Anyway halata namang ayaw nya sakin hehe kasi kapag wala naman si bestfriend1 di naman siya sumasama sa akin kung baga si bestfriend1 lang talaga nag uugnay sa amin.

Fast Forward...
College na kami naging magkakaklase uli kaming tatlo actually kaming dalawa lang pala ni bestfriend 1 nung time na yun kasi sa Mapua nag aral si bestfriend2 nung mga panahong yun pero 1 year lang kasi di nya matiis na di kasama si bestfriend1 saka na hohomesick din kaya hayun lumipat din sa school namin. As usual ayaw pa rin niya sa akin haha! Pero nung tumagal tagal natanggap na din siguro niya yung ugali ko na ganun talaga ako haha! Eventually naging close din kaming dalawa.

Start of Conflict
After2 years naging super close din kami ni bestfriend2, inseparable na din kami tapos lalo pa kami naging mag close kasi nung time na yun nagka gf na si bestfriend1 so di na namin siya masyado nakakasama kasi yung gf na nya lagi nya kasama. kaunti lang din naging close friends ko nung college kasi madalas yung mga nakikipag kaibigan sa akin gusto lang nila mapalapit kay bestfriend2 may pagka campus heathrob kasi yun tapos mayaman pa hehe serious type kaya dami may crush dami din gusto makipag kaibigan pero mapili din kasi sa mga kakaibiganin yun kung maselan ako mas maselan yun sa pagpili ng kaibigan.

Heto yung di ko makakalimutang nangyari nung college, may isa kasi kaming kaklaseng babae na patay na patay siya, ayos lang naman kahit sa buong campus siya pinaka kinaiinisan ko kasi sobrang plastik tapos lahat yata ng lalaki sa college namin na shota na nya haha, totoo yun. Patay na patay rin naman sa kanya yung babae matagal na, isang ligaw lang dun sigurado ako sasagutin na agad siya. So isang araw nagpunta ng baguio yung bestfriend2 ko kasama family nya, pag uwi nya may pasalubong siyang dala kay bestfriend1, friendship bracelet yun ayos lang kahit wala ako di naman ako seloso kahit medyo nainggit ako hehe. Pero yung nagpagulat sa akin nakita ko sa malayo pinuntahan nya yung crush nya may nilabas pa siyang isa pang friendship bracelet tapos binigay nya, sabi ko sa sarili ko wtf? bat siya meron ako wala? eh mas close naman ako sa kanya   ok lang naman kung kaming dalawa na matalik niyang kaibigan ang wala tapos yung crush niya lang yung meron pero ang nangyari  ako lang ang wala. Kaya sa isip isip ko siguro di pa rin nya ako tinuturing na close friend . So hinayaan ko nalang pero buong araw ko siya di pinapansin may kababawan pero ganun talaga ako kababaw dati haha. Nung kinagabihan habang pauwi kami tinanong nya ako kung ok lang ako sabi ko oo, medyo ginabi kami sa school nun kasi may activity yata di ko na matandaan hehe. Hindi namin kasama pauwi si best friend 1 kasi hinatid nya girl friend nya.

Habang nasa sasakyan nya kami...
Bestfriend 2 : Napapansin ko kanina ka pa tahimik
tahimik pa din ako di ko siya sinagot
Best friend 2: ano ba talaga problema mo?
Ako: wala nga! saka paki mo ba? (masungit kong tugon wahaha)
best friend 2: tangina kinakausap ka ng maayos diyan eh
Dahil nagkakapikunan na sabi ko baba nalang ako, pero yung bababaan ko delikadong lugar yun saka medyo madilim haha
best friend 2: gago ka ba? bababa ka dito eh delikadong lugar ito
ako: sus ayos lang yun (tapang tapangan ako kahit nakakatakot haha)
Diniretso pa din nya yung sasakyan tapos nung makarating na sa medyo safe na lugar sa may tapat yata ng police station yun dun siya huminto, nung pababa na ako may inabot siya sa akin.
Best friend 2:  Heto nga pala yung pasalubong ko sayo di ko naibigay agad sayo kanina naiwan kasi dito sa kotse yung lock niyan
Yung bracelet galing baguio, at may pangalan ko pa para ding kila best friend 1 saka yung sa crush nya. Sabi ko sa sarili ko wtf? meron din pala ako , pero dahil ma pride akong tao nung mga panahong yun hindi ko tinanggap basta nalang ako bumaba na di man lang siya nilingon (grabe pagka immature ko nun hehe) pero gumaan na loob ko hehe. Nung gabing yun di man lang ako tinext kung nakauwi na ba ako siyempre bigla nalang ako bumaba kaya usually tatanungin ka ng kaibigan mo kung kamusta ka kung nakauwi ka ba ng maayos, pero ni isang text wala.
kinabukasan nalaman niya mula kay best friend 1 yung dahilan kung bakit ako sinumpong ng pagka bata hehe. Grabe yung galit niya sa akin di ko talaga makakalimutan yun. Dali dali nya ako pinuntahan para awayin hehe
bestfriend 2: taena peps dahil lang dun nagkakaganyan ka?napaka liit na bagay pinalaki mo. Tagal na natin magkaibigan para lang sa maliit na bagay sisirain mo yun?
Kitang kita ko galit sa mga mata nya nung mga panahong yun, ako tahimik lang parang tameme hehe nagmamadali siya umalis tapos mula nun di na nya ako kinausap.

itutuloy.... hehe

[Ryker]

@Peps, what's next to your story?

Sana lang sinabi mo ng harapan o dineretso mo si Best Friend 2 kung bakit ka nagtatampo sa kanya.

Masakit sa pakiramdam na malalaman mo pa sa iba ang dahilan o kuwento, na sa halip ikaw ang magsabi.

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FRIENDS = from the original meaning "To Love"

Kaya sakto ang Tagalog na KAIBIGAN = kaIBIGan (binibigyang-diin ang "IBIG")

You cannot be a friend to a person unless you love the person first.

[Addie]

Asan na ang karugtong? I enjoyed it.

[coxxxz]

Anung nangyari?  Anu karugtong??