Nagbibigay k b ng pera sa parents mo?

[ram013]

may pagka same situation tayo..and I guess true ung sinabi ni Jude na its a middle child syndrome

[angelo]

yes the middle child syndrome is true. laging down at feeling lugi at api.

[ram013]

I felt that nuon bata pa me pero instead of dwelling on it..ginamit ko sya to be a better man.

I decided to look at things on a different perspective. used those things in my benefit and to motivate me to be better at all things.

I could now say that I am stronger.

[marvinofthefaintsmile]

same here ram! Unlike my brother and sister, I dont have a ninong at ninang (kc ber months na!). I receive no gifts other than my Grandfather's mistress's cash gift. When I want to buy something, my parents say pagipunan q. But when my brother and sister asked soemthing eh bigay kagad. Haha! I can still remember how envy i felt nung lagi silang nakakareceive ng mga gifts from their ninongs and ninangs. At aq lang ang namura ng tatay q pg me away sa magkakapatid. Lagi din bago ang mga gamit nila sa school at sakin ung napaglumaan.. Sa private school din cla nag-aral whereas the public school lang aq (Pero I insist sa private school na nung college! ^_^).

Because of that, I depend on myself more since I found everyone else useless. I rose above the whole family. I gained various ribbons, medals, thropies both in martial arts and academics. I even have a better job than anybody else at home. Kya ayun, dq tlga ma-accept n magbigay ng money since pinaghirapan q un.

Com'on guys, i cried my tears for 20+ years; You can't be mad at me.

[marvinofthefaintsmile]

tnx fox..

because of that event. I learn to save money! Kya its hard for me to just give huge amounts of money to my parents. Ngbbgay nmn aq pero in food or appliances na form..

One of the biggest challenge na napgdaanan q eh ung "heavily damaged na self esteem" kase lagi aqng pinagagalitan at hinahampas ng kahoy at leather belt na prang wala naqng nagawang tama. Kya in return eh I always have a feeling na mali aq.. Kht na ung mga mga bagay na hinde mahirap intinded like Holidays eh naiicp q n bka me pasok at hinde Holiday. Negative din ang tingin q sa lahat ng mga bagay. Na dapat me maling mangyayare. It took me more than a decade to regain back my self esteem nun..

[marvinofthefaintsmile]

xenxa n fox. mejo inatake aq ng pagka-emo.

well, after 30 mins nap in the office eh ok na aq. Haha!

[Chris]

di naman ako required magbigay sa parents ko, pero gayunpaman, nagbibigay pa rin ako ng fixed.

voluntarily ko naman yun binibigay kasi i'm not yet married and  i still live with them and parang yun na lang din ang contribution ko for my food, utilities, laundry and other expenses.

at saka when you see your parents growing older, you want to give them the best and make them happy.

[ram013]

di naman ako required magbigay sa parents ko, pero gayunpaman, nagbibigay pa rin ako ng fixed.

voluntarily ko naman yun binibigay kasi i'm not yet married and  i still live with them and parang yun na lang din ang contribution ko for my food, utilities, laundry and other expenses.

at saka when you see your parents growing older, you want to give them the best and make them happy.

totally agree

[Jon]

bread and butter plus coffee ako sa amin.

[ram013]

ayos pati coffee kasama

[judE_Law]

bread and butter plus coffee ako sa amin.

hehehe... ayos.

[marvinofthefaintsmile]

nanghhinge pa dn sakn c nanay.. naicp q n pg sinunod q ung gusto nyang amount ng money eh aalisin q n lng ung ibang mga gastos q for them. pero hu knows. dpnde p dn sa mood q. hehe.

[judE_Law]

nanghhinge pa dn sakn c nanay.. naicp q n pg sinunod q ung gusto nyang amount ng money eh aalisin q n lng ung ibang mga gastos q for them. pero hu knows. dpnde p dn sa mood q. hehe.

sikreto diyan... kahit konti lang ibibigay mop... sabayan mo lang ng lambing.. maiintindihan ka rin.

[jaguar05]

Obligado ako eh. No choice.

[judE_Law]

^^ dito naman sa Pinas, Obligado kadalasan ang mga anak eh...