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Started by ctan, October 31, 2011, 06:21:57 PM

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vortex

Quote from: darkstar13 on November 15, 2011, 05:38:52 PM
Maybe you do not long for him because you never really "had" him for a father. ;(
Hindi ko alam, based sa mga kapatid ko he'd been a good father. Although maybe not an ideal one. haha..hindi ko alam, ganun naman talaga eh, may mga pagkukulang ang mga tao. Although may naaalala ako na memories with him pero iyon lang. It was shadowed already by what I perceive about him. Hindi naman alam ng pamilya ko na bitter ako because at that age nung mamatay siya who would have thought of me na may ganung pag-iisip. Nung lumalaki ako parang nun lang lumalabas ang bitternes ko eh.

joshgroban

just forgive him...anuman ang  natitirang bitterness sayo... its not worth it...

vortex

Quote from: joshgroban on November 16, 2011, 11:22:55 PM
just forgive him...anuman ang  natitirang bitterness sayo... its not worth it...
Thanks Sir Josh, well to be honest wala na naman sa akin yung bitterness eh. Yung pagkukulang nya sa amin matagal ko nang kinalimutan. It just so happened na bumalik na naman yung effect ng pagkakamali nya. But I don't want to linger on his mistakes, napag-usapan namin ng Mama ko kaninang madaling-araw iyan, sabi ko na lang hayaan tutal patay na siya eh. Thanks sa advise. You're right, it's not worth it. After all thankful pa rin ako that's he's been my father.

joshgroban

basta ako try be the good father to my kids...even if not perfect...

marvinofthefaintsmile

Quote from: arthur_allen30 on October 31, 2011, 11:44:42 PM
can't see it......

it has been always like that for almost 23 years of my life.......

ihahanda ko na sana ang gamit ko.... :'( :'( :'(\

good provider - check
mabait - sometimes
strict- super sobra grabe
addict/alcoholic/gambler - hindi hindi
perfectionist - diyos ata ang tatay ko...
loving - too much na siguro...sakal na ako...

:'( :'(

hala! iharap moq s father mo coz im the embodiment of perfection. charot!

bobbylost

Grade2 ako nung naghiwalay parents ko. Sa ermats ko na ako lumaki. After graduation na lang ulit kami nagkita.
Lahat ng memories ko sa kanya hanggang grade2 ako masaya naman lahat.
Ngayon may iba na syang family and mga anak, pero ok naman kami. In good terms, and well aqccommodated naman ako sa bago nyang family kapag nagbabakasyon ako sa kanila.
Di ko masasabing naging mabuti siyang asawa ng nanay ko pero masasabi ko'ng kahit papaano eh naging mabuting ama naman siya sa amin;

marvinofthefaintsmile

at dahil jan. kantahan q n lng keo ng Ode to the Family. char!

angelo

not that close.

i just noticed that Filipinos anchor more on the motherly side.

Lanchie

We started out as a matriarchial society....


Anyway, si Tatay at ako eh di magkasundo for the longest time but since pumulas na ako sa bahay for 5 years may mutual respect na kame ngayon.

joshgroban


marvinofthefaintsmile

bat ba biglang tumutugtog sa isip ko yung Ode to family ng Cranberries.. My father... my father.. he like me.. he like me..

joshgroban

di ako close kay tatay kasi nagseparate sila kay nanay ako napunta... every christmas lang ako dun nung maliit pa ko... but on his last days here on earth i was able to tell him whats in my heart all these years

Lanchie

We've come to a point of mutual respect since I'm out of the house for almost a decade now.

Nagpapakiramdaman lagi kase parehas kameng mabunganga. hahhaha