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Started by chris_davao, November 26, 2014, 04:17:07 PM

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chris_davao

Inatake na ba kayo ng depression? Ano ginagawa nyo if na-dedepress kayo? Ang mga lalaki ba, di tinatamaan nito? O ako lang? Tulong nman.  :(

SeanJulian

Quote from: chris_davao on November 26, 2014, 04:17:07 PM
Inatake na ba kayo ng depression? Ano ginagawa nyo if na-dedepress kayo? Ang mga lalaki ba, di tinatamaan nito? O ako lang? Tulong nman.  :(

ako diagnosed with dysthymia, sobrang hirap ng pinagdadaanan ko minsan
one thing kung bakit ako nakakamove is to focus myself to my family and to those few friends that i have.
sila lang kasi nakakapagpangiti saken so far. and gawin mo ang mga bagay na alam mo makakapagpasaya sayo
ang hirap kasi sa mga may mild depression na katulad ko, nagpapaapekto sa kung anu anu ang iniisip kadalasan.
i should say kya din siguru ako ngppost dito sa forums nato is to seek advise as well from my peers, like you do.

anything we could help you with?

chris_davao

Quote from: SeanJulian on November 26, 2014, 04:53:06 PM
Quote from: chris_davao on November 26, 2014, 04:17:07 PM
Inatake na ba kayo ng depression? Ano ginagawa nyo if na-dedepress kayo? Ang mga lalaki ba, di tinatamaan nito? O ako lang? Tulong nman.  :(

ako diagnosed with dysthymia, sobrang hirap ng pinagdadaanan ko minsan
one thing kung bakit ako nakakamove is to focus myself to my family and to those few friends that i have.
sila lang kasi nakakapagpangiti saken so far. and gawin mo ang mga bagay na alam mo makakapagpasaya sayo
ang hirap kasi sa mga may mild depression na katulad ko, nagpapaapekto sa kung anu anu ang iniisip kadalasan.
i should say kya din siguru ako ngppost dito sa forums nato is to seek advise as well from my peers, like you do.

anything we could help you with?

if magsha-share nman ako sa mga churchmates ko, parang wla lng e. parang di nila ako naiintindihan.

SeanJulian

^ yup, may mga random thoughts din naman kasi na mas makabubuting ishare sa mga strangers rather than sa close friends mo
one reason kaya ako ngjoin here is to learn more from you all, though were strangers in nature.
and regarding sa churchmates mo, prolly because hindi ka pa ganun kapalagay sa kanila, or hindi ka pa masyadong nagtitiwala sa kanila?

chris_davao

Quote from: SeanJulian on November 26, 2014, 05:12:06 PM
^ yup, may mga random thoughts din naman kasi na mas makabubuting ishare sa mga strangers rather than sa close friends mo
one reason kaya ako ngjoin here is to learn more from you all, though were strangers in nature.
and regarding sa churchmates mo, prolly because hindi ka pa ganun kapalagay sa kanila, or hindi ka pa masyadong nagtitiwala sa kanila?

yeah, you're right. better to share with strangers than sa mga kakilala ko. yup, di ako kumportable may share pa sa kanila although nagkikita kami sa church gatherings and every Sunday.

SeanJulian

^ and im telling you, mahirap magsabi ng mga "bagay-bagay" lalo sa nakikita mo araw araw
you can express what you feel sa mga forums like this without worrying kung anu ang sasabihin nila sayo

so its fine to at least share it with us, malay mo makatulong kami sa depression mo sir :)

chris_davao

Quote from: SeanJulian on November 26, 2014, 05:26:57 PM
^ and im telling you, mahirap magsabi ng mga "bagay-bagay" lalo sa nakikita mo araw araw
you can express what you feel sa mga forums like this without worrying kung anu ang sasabihin nila sayo

so its fine to at least share it with us, malay mo makatulong kami sa depression mo sir :)

oo nga. hope all of you will help me.  :)

SeanJulian

^ oh simulan na yan, anu ba punot dulo nyan? hehe

chris_davao

Quote from: SeanJulian on November 26, 2014, 05:34:08 PM
^ oh simulan na yan, anu ba punot dulo nyan? hehe

okay, ganito yun. nung college pa ako, most of my classmates and professors/instructors knew me. then, nung grad na kami, at nakawork na, sayang-saya ako kasi may sweldo na. di na ako humingi ng pera sa parents. then one time, naghingi ng mama ko ng pera ko sa akin pero di ako nagbibigay kasi meron naman xang work at yung papa ko from abroad, may binibigay nman. her reason nga gusto ako magbigay sa kanya is, para pag matanda na daw sila, di daw kami makalimot sa kanila. then sa sobrang galit ko, i answered her angrily na di xa na-pleased. ayun, she cursed me. totoo pala yun, once you're mother cried because of you and cursed you, totoo pla yun. okay nman yung credentials ko at every time mag-apply ako, wla pa rin epek. all of my classmates are working and i'm not. everytime may gatherings ang grupo, they asked me kung ano work ko, sabi ko wala. pero meron naman kaming small business kaya dun ako nagwowork pero iba pa rin yung wla sila sa tabi mo para masanay ka. the worst is, i'm getting 24 na this christmas. so sad.

SeanJulian

so youre saying na may work ka before pero hindi tumagal, and your mom expects you to gave you a percentage of the salary as assurance that you dont ignore then when the time comes that they need to retire from their own work right?
i think its fine, ako din nung first time na ngkawork ako, pinaliwanag ko na ang unang sahod ko gusto ko eh sakin muna para maramdaman ko naging hirap ko, ang naging isyu lang siguro sayo is hindi mo nakausap ng ayos mom mo.

then you said that wala kang work now right? and youre deeply concerned about sa sinasabi ng mga peers mo na ikaw lang ang wlang work sa kanila, i should say wla nmang kaso dun, you can still try and try to apply for a job that you like. ako in my case 23 na ako ngstart magwork, first job ko to and sa kabutihang palad ndi ako natanggal.

it seems like youre depressed in a general term, because of a certain issue lamang. those issues are the ones that can easily be resolved by just talking not just to strangers but also to your closest friends. and also i suggest try talking to your mom regarding that matter. kung anu plans mo and to the future of the family.

chris_davao

Quote from: SeanJulian on November 26, 2014, 06:04:00 PM
so youre saying na may work ka before pero hindi tumagal, and your mom expects you to gave you a percentage of the salary as assurance that you dont ignore then when the time comes that they need to retire from their own work right?
i think its fine, ako din nung first time na ngkawork ako, pinaliwanag ko na ang unang sahod ko gusto ko eh sakin muna para maramdaman ko naging hirap ko, ang naging isyu lang siguro sayo is hindi mo nakausap ng ayos mom mo.

then you said that wala kang work now right? and youre deeply concerned about sa sinasabi ng mga peers mo na ikaw lang ang wlang work sa kanila, i should say wla nmang kaso dun, you can still try and try to apply for a job that you like. ako in my case 23 na ako ngstart magwork, first job ko to and sa kabutihang palad ndi ako natanggal.

it seems like youre depressed in a general term, because of a certain issue lamang. those issues are the ones that can easily be resolved by just talking not just to strangers but also to your closest friends. and also i suggest try talking to your mom regarding that matter. kung anu plans mo and to the future of the family.

yup, nag-usap na kami about that. i prayed also that God will give a job na masaya ako. do you think, di ko ginawa ang best ko to find a job?

SeanJulian

^ not really, sa pag hahanap ng trabaho kase swertihan
pero un lang ba ang rason kumbaket ka stressed and depressed?

chris_davao

Quote from: SeanJulian on November 26, 2014, 06:22:12 PM
^ not really, sa pag hahanap ng trabaho kase swertihan
pero un lang ba ang rason kumbaket ka stressed and depressed?

siguro, about sa career lang. y?

SeanJulian

^ before kasi i have suicidal tendencies eh, kya ako ngpakunsulta sa doctor, eventually ndi ko na masyado naisip un, nililibang ko lang sarili ko

kung sa career path naman, siguro dont stop looking for a job na alam mong babagay at magugustuhan mo, try mo makipagsapalaran dito sa manila, malay mo?

chris_davao

Quote from: SeanJulian on November 26, 2014, 06:28:19 PM
^ before kasi i have suicidal tendencies eh, kya ako ngpakunsulta sa doctor, eventually ndi ko na masyado naisip un, nililibang ko lang sarili ko

kung sa career path naman, siguro dont stop looking for a job na alam mong babagay at magugustuhan mo, try mo makipagsapalaran dito sa manila, malay mo?

baka next year, hopefully. :)