Nagkumpara ka na ba ng penis size?

[JV76]

 

[angelo]

Just curious kung nagkumparahan ba kayo ng kapatid mong lalaki o kaya sa tatay mo? Sinong lamang?

no. soo awkward. ikaw nagawa mo na?

[carpediem]

yikes sobrang awkward. di ko maimagine

[angelo]

^ Not totally compared pero parang accidental lang kasi pareho kaming nagbibihis ng kuya ko tapos side comment lang like "parang malaki yata yung sa yo" ganun lang pero di talaga comparison na pinagdikit pa namin hehehe.

Sa tatay ko naman, nacompare ko lang sa kin from memory, naalala ko kasi nung nasa probinsiya kami and pinaliliguan ako ng tatay ko siyempre nakahubad kami. Halos pareho lang kami ng size except iba style ng tuli kasi sa pukpok siya ako sa doctor.

hanggang ilan taon ka kaya pinapaliguan ng tatay mo?

[Reyzho]

Just curious kung nagkumparahan ba kayo ng kapatid mong lalaki o kaya sa tatay mo? Sinong lamang?

no. soo awkward. ikaw nagawa mo na?

On nga... nakakailang na man..
ang weird na man pag nag cocompare...
tatay at kapatid mo sila.... may pagkakaiba ba para mag compare?
malamang, minana mo yong sayo sa kanila....
hahahaha......

[angelo]

Just curious kung nagkumparahan ba kayo ng kapatid mong lalaki o kaya sa tatay mo? Sinong lamang?

no. soo awkward. ikaw nagawa mo na?

On nga... nakakailang na man..
ang weird na man pag nag cocompare...
tatay at kapatid mo sila.... may pagkakaiba ba para mag compare?
malamang, minana mo yong sayo sa kanila....
hahahaha......

yeah. just to be naked in front of them is too much, what more to compare..

malay mo lang... iba... haha

[Reyzho]

Just curious kung nagkumparahan ba kayo ng kapatid mong lalaki o kaya sa tatay mo? Sinong lamang?

no. soo awkward. ikaw nagawa mo na?

On nga... nakakailang na man..
ang weird na man pag nag cocompare...
tatay at kapatid mo sila.... may pagkakaiba ba para mag compare?
malamang, minana mo yong sayo sa kanila....
hahahaha......

yeah. just to be naked in front of them is too much, what more to compare..

malay mo lang... iba... haha

Hahahahahaha!!!!!!!!!!!!
ewan ko nga ba..

[vladmickk]

Just curious kung nagkumparahan ba kayo ng kapatid mong lalaki o kaya sa tatay mo? Sinong lamang?

no. soo awkward. ikaw nagawa mo na?

On nga... nakakailang na man..
ang weird na man pag nag cocompare...
tatay at kapatid mo sila.... may pagkakaiba ba para mag compare?
malamang, minana mo yong sayo sa kanila....
hahahaha......

yeah. just to be naked in front of them is too much, what more to compare..

malay mo lang... iba... haha

Hahahahahaha!!!!!!!!!!!!
ewan ko nga ba..

Wala namang nakakailang dun unless pinagtabi mo yun packages ninyo and kinumpara mo. What I said was mine was a by-product of the incident and not the incident itself.

Now, it's more clear to me that Filipino men eh nahihiya or they see it na may malisya pag nakita kang nakahubad ng kapatid o magulang mo. Sa ibang culture wala yun sa kanila. Although meron ding ibang pinoy na comfortable dito. I was at a spa here in Manila and may mga nakita ko father and son who are comfortable being naked together. Sa korea ganun din sa mga sauna nila, sila sila pa nga naghihilod sa isat-isa eh and the age range is varied from young kids to early adults.

So the question now is, bakit ilang ang pinoy na lalaki na makitang magkahubo ang isa't-isa lalo na kung kapatid o tatay mo ito?

oo nga? bakit kaya ganun? dahil siguro uso sa atin ang kantyawan sa kahit anong bagay. malamang natatakot tayong matukso ng kapatid o father natin?

[angelo]

wala lang talaga sa atin yun.. mAy pagkamahiyain lang.. ok siguro kung brother para sa akin.. pero kung tatay talaga iba na yun.. ayaw ko nga makita yung kanya haha kaya nahirapan ako dati nung ako pa tiga bantay niya sa hospital nung may procedure na kailangan gawin doon.

[JV76]

^ Both valid I think yung opinion ninyo. Takot makantiyawan and mahiyain is the after-effect.

Am sure naaalala ninyo na nung elementary tayo, may mga bully na tatawagin kang supot o maliit ang butotoy kaya siguro nadala na natin ito hanggang paglaki.

Another thing is I think yung upbringing. Pag lumaki ka sa pamilya na yung matatanda kinakantiyawan ka nung bata ka na nakahubo ka at sasabihin na makikita yung butotoy mo ng ibang tao nagca-cause ito ng maling effect sa mentality ng bata.

Dun sa isang thread "Who has seen you naked" may iba na sabay naliligo kasama barkada o kaibigan. What difference is it kung kapamilya? Just curious...

[angelo]

^ Both valid I think yung opinion ninyo. Takot makantiyawan and mahiyain is the after-effect.

Am sure naaalala ninyo na nung elementary tayo, may mga bully na tatawagin kang supot o maliit ang butotoy kaya siguro nadala na natin ito hanggang paglaki.

Another thing is I think yung upbringing. Pag lumaki ka sa pamilya na yung matatanda kinakantiyawan ka nung bata ka na nakahubo ka at sasabihin na makikita yung butotoy mo ng ibang tao nagca-cause ito ng maling effect sa mentality ng bata.

Dun sa isang thread "Who has seen you naked" may iba na sabay naliligo kasama barkada o kaibigan. What difference is it kung kapamilya? Just curious...

yes. baka nga takot makantiyawan. malakas pa naman mang-ostrasize ang mga pinoy. unlike in other cultures, walang pakialamanan sa suot, ginagawa, etc.

may mga bully nga. pero hindi naman ako naging victim na matawag na supot or maliit na willy. may mga malas lang talagang tao na sila yung laughing stock of the group, lalo na sa amin, may swimming PE pa kami noon.

on the upbringing, part na talaga ng culture. kaya nga may nabuong konsepto ng dalagang tinatawag na "maria clara" more on the conservative side and that showing some skin would be very bad. but at least we are adjusting to become more "liberal"  - that is why meron ka na naririnig or nababasang posts about friends sharing the shower type of stories. minsan naman kasi trip trip lang din.

on the difference, mahirap sabihin talaga kung ano. im no sociologist to give a valid explanation on this. on how i see it, it just feels awkward to have family members see you naked period (as compared to friends). probably, they are of your age and "iba ang inyong pinagsamahan" for being friends... that is why siguro medyo ok lang kung brother mo (which is of almost the same age as you are, i doubt it kung ok pa rin ito to brothers who are at least 10 years apart)

[vladmickk]

sa tingin nyo, saan ba to nagsimula, sa mga pinoy talaga o sa mga sumakop sa atin (espanyol?)?

[JV76]

^ I like your answer too. Very valid. Tama ang sinabi mo but I think it's about time to correct the notion that a naked body is bad and is always linked to sex which people here also see as something bad. We have to grow up in this sense and it's a long way to go if we don't start now.

But don't you think it's natural for men to compare against the other? Sinong mas maganda kotse, sinong mas maganda girlfriend, sinong mas maganda ang career, sinong mas malaki bahay? Sorta like that. And can't deny na minsan kahit biruan sa barkada nagyayabangan kung sino mas malaki. Pataasan ba ng ihi.

But like what I said, it's not the intention to completely check-out someone elses genitals just for the sake of seeing it. It was in a circumstance where the comparison was an afterthought.

[Jon]

comparing your tool to someone ...( esp sa kapatid at tatay )

its totally awkward...

curiosity is also part of it and insecurity whatever the result of the comparison...

for me comparison with some very close friends is OK lang...pero to the relatives...its too much...

about the culture thing...YES, other countries has no problem with this issue...esp KOREANs..madami kasi BATHhouses sila dun...
                                        PERO sa atin may issue talaga ( kung sa babae pa "maria clara ang dating" ) conservative tayo kahit saang aspeto.

[JV76]

It's interesting, based on the replies, that most of you are repulsed by the idea even if the action itself has nothing sexual to it.

The question posed is answerable by either "yes" or a big resounding "no" and yet here we are seeing people come into their defenses. Plus, the number of views is inversely proportional to the replies. Scared to share your thoughts?

It is abundantly clear that we as a culture pretend to be "conservative" and yet we see women on national television gyrate and dressed like night club dancers.

Just playing the devil's advocate here.....