IDENTITY CRISIS ???

[Jon]

    

[gslide]

marami yang ganyan

katulong nmin kung umasta anak cya ng amo or kamaganak nmin kapal ng muka.

[Prince Pao]

wait.. anong identity ba ang tinutukoy mo kya J?

[Jon]

gender identity crisis...

kasi may nabasa ko sa isang article sa newspaper kanina...

[Prince Pao]

ok lang yan... sabi nga ng psychiatrist ng kakilala ko lahat ng tao may possibility na magka.identity crisis..

[angelo]

sa tingin ko lahat ng tao meron..

[sh**p]

marami yang ganyan

katulong nmin kung umasta anak cya ng amo or kamaganak nmin kapal ng muka.

wicked!

[marvinofthefaintsmile]

back in Tigger woods.. Me isa aqng naging closest friend whom is taga-victory din.. Then on one of our thousand talks eh na-admit nya n nagkaron xa ng "Identity Crisis".. However, dq natanong kung anu ba ito? gender or position..

Kyo guys, anu b unang pumapsok sa icp nyo pag sinabing identity crisis?

[mang juan]

ang pumapasok sa isip ko eh gender agad. haha.

pero sabi nga sa theory ni Erik Erikson may mga developmental tasks (conflicts) ang tao na kelangan masolve every stage ng buhay nya. sa adolescent stage, identity versus role confusion. identity crisis is the failure to achieve ego identity during adolescence.
During this stage of adolescence, we are faced with physical growth, sexual maturation, and integrating our ideas of ourselves and about what others think of us. We form our self-image and endure the task of resolving the crisis of our basic ego identity. Successful resolution of the crisis depends on one's progress through previous developmental stages, centering on issues such as trust, autonomy, and initiative.

[marvinofthefaintsmile]

anyway. this friend of mine has a gf nman (although siya ang sumagot sa girl). Nung pa-start p lng ang pagkkibigan nmin eh me mga "hints" aq n npnsin bout him..

• Nakwento siya na natukso siyang bakla nung high school or elementary xa dahil sa kaputian niya.
• Minsan nung asa elevator kame ng CG eh napansin qng hinihimas nya ang braso q at naka-smile xa. Agad q xang sinuway at nagbehave nman siya ever since.
• Malihim siya. Prang kabaliktaran q. Hinde siya makwento bout his life.
• Volleyball lng ang hobby nya.
• Prang hinde siya comfy to change clothes with me pag mag-ggym attire kme. For me eh its really nothing. Not a big deal
• Wala siyang mabigay sakin na matinong sagot pag meron aqng mga topics na nireraise sa knya.

ok nmn xa sakn.. pero nahiwagaan lng aq sa personality nya..

[ram013]

anyway. this friend of mine has a gf nman (although siya ang sumagot sa girl). Nung pa-start p lng ang pagkkibigan nmin eh me mga "hints" aq n npnsin bout him..

• Nakwento siya na natukso siyang bakla nung high school or elementary xa dahil sa kaputian niya.
• Minsan nung asa elevator kame ng CG eh napansin qng hinihimas nya ang braso q at naka-smile xa. Agad q xang sinuway at nagbehave nman siya ever since.
• Malihim siya. Prang kabaliktaran q. Hinde siya makwento bout his life.
• Volleyball lng ang hobby nya.
• Prang hinde siya comfy to change clothes with me pag mag-ggym attire kme. For me eh its really nothing. Not a big deal
• Wala siyang mabigay sakin na matinong sagot pag meron aqng mga topics na nireraise sa knya.

ok nmn xa sakn.. pero nahiwagaan lng aq sa personality nya..

• Malihim siya. Prang kabaliktaran q. Hinde siya makwento bout his life.
• Volleyball lng ang hobby nya.
• Prang hinde siya comfy to change clothes with me pag mag-ggym attire kme. For me eh its really nothing. Not a big deal

so kung may mga ganitong situation, what are you trying to tell about the person???

[marvinofthefaintsmile]

^^ I'm trying to understand the way he thinks using yor feedback. At least I have a hint.

[ram013]

hint na?

[marvinofthefaintsmile]

Wat r ur inputs to it? What can u say bout it? So ram, nu mssabe mo?

[ram013]

i think base dun sa instances na ni-list ko, it doesn't define the person of who he is. I need to know the person first before I can say anything.

I have a lot of experiences with my people wherein they tend to judge people first at a first glance and I always advise them not to build a person's reputation/personality based on your first impressions coz a lot of times its not what we think.

Benefit of the doubt palagi and let them prove themselves na what you think of them is not true