Bromance!

[blueboyRN]

Sana ako rin may ganito

[chris_davao]

update: nitong nito lang nagbukas ako ng skype.. nagulat ako kasi merong 4 message.. galing sya kay bff ko.. gustong gusto nya kong ma-encounter ulet.

so the next day, nagonline ako, at mbilis pa sa alas kwatro, kwntuhan n kagad kami hanggang 4 na oras.

after nun, parang ang saya saya ko. although I admit, I'm holding back some feelings. kasi ayoko na mag-expect.

itutuloy..

Aminin... 

nasundan pa ito ng 1 time, 6 hours straight kami nagusap.

pero... as time pass by.. Aaaminin ko na parang nawawalan na ako ng interes sa kanya..

at mas more sa gf ko.. magpapakasal na kasi kami.

ngayon.. thinking about him. as ugly as it is.. baka hayaan ko na lang sya sa life nya.. yung tipong.. hindi na ko maghahabol or anything..

i admit, masarap kausap ang mga kaibigan. 

[chris_davao]

Sana ako rin may ganito

time will come. 

[blueboyRN]

yeahcris

[sayonara]

update: nitong nito lang nagbukas ako ng skype.. nagulat ako kasi merong 4 message.. galing sya kay bff ko.. gustong gusto nya kong ma-encounter ulet.

so the next day, nagonline ako, at mbilis pa sa alas kwatro, kwntuhan n kagad kami hanggang 4 na oras.

after nun, parang ang saya saya ko. although I admit, I'm holding back some feelings. kasi ayoko na mag-expect.

itutuloy..

Aminin... 

nasundan pa ito ng 1 time, 6 hours straight kami nagusap.

pero... as time pass by.. Aaaminin ko na parang nawawalan na ako ng interes sa kanya..

at mas more sa gf ko.. magpapakasal na kasi kami.

ngayon.. thinking about him. as ugly as it is.. baka hayaan ko na lang sya sa life nya.. yung tipong.. hindi na ko maghahabol or anything..

Hmm, congrats sa inyo ng gf mo.

Pero it's sad knowing na hindi nagwork out ang relationship niyo ng bestfriend mo.

You know, i admit minsan naiisip ko rin yan. Na ako na yung bumitaw, or lumayo na lang. Pero i dont know. I just cant. Alam mo yun? Secured ka naman sa sarili mo. Hindi ka naman bakla, pero ang lakas talaga ng longing mo sa kaniya. Kaya di ko rin makuhang bumitaw. Sabi ko nga kahit matagalan akong magasawa, basta andyan ang bestfriend ko, walang lungkot e. Hahaha!

Bihira lang talaga ang ganitong kaibigan. Iba talaga. Kaya nalulungkot ako para sayo. Kasi pag iniisip ko pa lang na mangyayari samin yan, aw. Hahaha parang di ko kaya.

[blueboyRN]

update: nitong nito lang nagbukas ako ng skype.. nagulat ako kasi merong 4 message.. galing sya kay bff ko.. gustong gusto nya kong ma-encounter ulet.

so the next day, nagonline ako, at mbilis pa sa alas kwatro, kwntuhan n kagad kami hanggang 4 na oras.

after nun, parang ang saya saya ko. although I admit, I'm holding back some feelings. kasi ayoko na mag-expect.

itutuloy..

Aminin... 

nasundan pa ito ng 1 time, 6 hours straight kami nagusap.

pero... as time pass by.. Aaaminin ko na parang nawawalan na ako ng interes sa kanya..

at mas more sa gf ko.. magpapakasal na kasi kami.

ngayon.. thinking about him. as ugly as it is.. baka hayaan ko na lang sya sa life nya.. yung tipong.. hindi na ko maghahabol or anything..

Hmm, congrats sa inyo ng gf mo.

Pero it's sad knowing na hindi nagwork out ang relationship niyo ng bestfriend mo.

You know, i admit minsan naiisip ko rin yan. Na ako na yung bumitaw, or lumayo na lang. Pero i dont know. I just cant. Alam mo yun? Secured ka naman sa sarili mo. Hindi ka naman bakla, pero ang lakas talaga ng longing mo sa kaniya. Kaya di ko rin makuhang bumitaw. Sabi ko nga kahit matagalan akong magasawa, basta andyan ang bestfriend ko, walang lungkot e. Hahaha!

Bihira lang talaga ang ganitong kaibigan. Iba talaga. Kaya nalulungkot ako para sayo. Kasi pag iniisip ko pa lang na mangyayari samin yan, aw. Hahaha parang di ko kaya.

Ramdam ko sinasabi mo.... sana ako makatagpo rin nyan

[toperyo]

Salamat marvin. Sa ngayon umiiwas na muna ko sa kanya. I dont know kung tama ba ginagawa ko or mas lalo ko lang pinahihirapan sarili ko, namimiss ko kasi yung mga madalas namin ginagawa tulad ng pagkain sa labas, nood sine, malling at simba

sabi nga ng isang pgger dito.. parang "addiction" sa sigarilyo yan.. Kung gusto mo nang itigil, kailangang iwasan mo nang manigarilyo.. Pero, hindi magiging ganun kadali ang proseso.. Eventually, dadating ang araw na kaya mo na. Bago naman dumating sya sa buhay mo, kaya mo namang mabuhay mag-isa di ba?

ang astig lang nito 👆 , lakas maka gising ng emotion. Yung tipong mahirap sa una pero later on makaka iwas ka din sa sigarilyo dagdagan pa ng alak, may process ang lahat ng bagay.

[marvinofthefaintsmile]

update: nitong nito lang nagbukas ako ng skype.. nagulat ako kasi merong 4 message.. galing sya kay bff ko.. gustong gusto nya kong ma-encounter ulet.

so the next day, nagonline ako, at mbilis pa sa alas kwatro, kwntuhan n kagad kami hanggang 4 na oras.

after nun, parang ang saya saya ko. although I admit, I'm holding back some feelings. kasi ayoko na mag-expect.

itutuloy..

Aminin... 

nasundan pa ito ng 1 time, 6 hours straight kami nagusap.

pero... as time pass by.. Aaaminin ko na parang nawawalan na ako ng interes sa kanya..

at mas more sa gf ko.. magpapakasal na kasi kami.

ngayon.. thinking about him. as ugly as it is.. baka hayaan ko na lang sya sa life nya.. yung tipong.. hindi na ko maghahabol or anything..

Hmm, congrats sa inyo ng gf mo.

Pero it's sad knowing na hindi nagwork out ang relationship niyo ng bestfriend mo.

You know, i admit minsan naiisip ko rin yan. Na ako na yung bumitaw, or lumayo na lang. Pero i dont know. I just cant. Alam mo yun? Secured ka naman sa sarili mo. Hindi ka naman bakla, pero ang lakas talaga ng longing mo sa kaniya. Kaya di ko rin makuhang bumitaw. Sabi ko nga kahit matagalan akong magasawa, basta andyan ang bestfriend ko, walang lungkot e. Hahaha!

Bihira lang talaga ang ganitong kaibigan. Iba talaga. Kaya nalulungkot ako para sayo. Kasi pag iniisip ko pa lang na mangyayari samin yan, aw. Hahaha parang di ko kaya.

Not really na "nag let it go" na ako sa pagkaka-ibigan namin ng bff ko. Nag-iiwan pa din kami ng messages kada linggo at nag-lalaro online at least once a week. Ang na-iba lang eh hindi na ganun "ka-intense" yung pagkaka-ibigan namin. Natawa nga ako kasi gumawa pa sya ng name para sa amin "M&M" daw.

Me times pa din na naiisip ko sya.. pero meron din akong iniisip na isa (fiance ko) na mas-feel ko eh mas-tamang magbuhos ng effort at emotion dito kasi sa kanya, malinaw ang future.

[sayonara]

Still, it would've been much better kung parehong optimal ang relationships mo sa kanila. So who's gonna be your bestman sir?

[marvinofthefaintsmile]

Still, it would've been much better kung parehong optimal ang relationships mo sa kanila. So who's gonna be your bestman sir?

no one. nothing. zero. wala.

[Ryker]

update: nitong nito lang nagbukas ako ng skype.. nagulat ako kasi merong 4 message.. galing sya kay bff ko.. gustong gusto nya kong ma-encounter ulet.

so the next day, nagonline ako, at mbilis pa sa alas kwatro, kwntuhan n kagad kami hanggang 4 na oras.

after nun, parang ang saya saya ko. although I admit, I'm holding back some feelings. kasi ayoko na mag-expect.

itutuloy..

Aminin... 

nasundan pa ito ng 1 time, 6 hours straight kami nagusap.

pero... as time pass by.. Aaaminin ko na parang nawawalan na ako ng interes sa kanya..

at mas more sa gf ko.. magpapakasal na kasi kami.

ngayon.. thinking about him. as ugly as it is.. baka hayaan ko na lang sya sa life nya.. yung tipong.. hindi na ko maghahabol or anything..

i admit, masarap kausap ang mga kaibigan. 

Somehow, mas masarap (nakakain nga ba?) at mas kasundo ko pa mga kaibigan ko kaysa kapamilya o kamag-anak.

[Ryker]

REPOST:

Just like how Asus bashed Apple for touting its 3D Touch feature on the iPhone 6s/6s plus, "Don't Force It."

Best friends, unlike any other social relationships you have, are like water streams. They flow smoothly, without any "pilit" factor or "masabing may best friend lang" effect. Best friends are basically soul mates, the heterosexual kind, and they transcend mere boundaries of hobbies, interests, or likes. Best friends are never superficial; they have such deep connection that even though they have other close friends of they own, at the end of the day, "sila at sila pa rin." Lastly, best friends are more than just a label; they are the continuum in which your soul resides when your own body is weakened.

You don't have to force it. If it's him and it's you, it would eventually find its way to work out, with the visibility and assurance you're looking for becoming more apparent to the world.

Hahaha and yes, personal experience. We're like brothers! More than, in fact! We're just us, having two working minds that are totally opposites of each other. Lol

Courtesy: SAYONARA from the thread 'May Best Friend Ka Ba?' (Feb 06, 2016)


@Sayonara, I like your thoughts about Best Friendship/Bromance.

[Ryker]

REPOST:

OF WALKING AND FRIENDSHIP
by ctan (063007)

Walking has always been my haven each time I am emotionally urged to think over things that happen in my life, a.k.a. the hustles and bustles of life. When I walk, I get to see little things... things that might be trivial to some people yet for me have proven to be profound in some ways. From these detailed observations of my surroundings, I gain insights about myself, about people around me, about my life experiences, and about life in general.

One theme that came up during my latest "walking session" was about friendship. I realized that it is true that friendship is universal. Many of us have known or experienced the satisfaction, security and benefits of good friendships. Many of us have also known people who we thought were friends, only to have them betray us, hurt us, or disappoint us. And if we were brutally honest with ourselves, most of us would have to admit that at sometime in our lives, we too have betrayed, hurt or disappointed our friends.

One very interesting aspect about friendship that I've thought about concerns with two words: having and being... that is, havinga friend and being a friend. The difference in perspective is paramount. When I'm concerned with having friends, my focus is on myself and my own needs. But when my desire is to be a friend, I'm thinking about other people -- I'm thinking about how I could be caring and how I could love them more than myself.

I remember a passage in the Bible in Proverbs 17:17. It says, "A friend loves at all times, and a brother is born for adversity." This verse gave me three realizations. First, a friend is someone who continues to love, and to show that love, whatever the circumstances. Second, a friend is born for adversity... not his or her adversity, but mine. In other words, a test of a friend is whether or not he or she is there for you in the bad times, the tough times. Third, a friend is like a brother... parang death, you can never get rid of him. Sometimes it's tough to be a friend. But a real friend does not shy away from the abrasiveness that comes from rubbing iron against iron, as Proverbs 27:17 describes it. Though it may grate on our nerves, we have to take a risk and hope that our friend of today will still be our friend tomorrow.

I so admire David and Jonathan's friendship as recorded in the Bible. Jonathan loved David as himself. He risked his very life to be David's friend. We read: "Jonathan got up from the table in fierce anger; that second day of the month he did not eat, because he was grieved at his father's shameful treatment of David. In the morning Jonathan went out to the field for his meeting with David. . . . Then they kissed each other and wept together—but David wept the most. Jonathan said to David, "Go in peace, for we have sworn friendship with each other in the name of the Lord, saying, 'The Lord is witness between you and me, and between your descendants and my descendants forever'" (1 Samuel 20:34-35, 41-42). Later, when Jonathan was killed in battle with the Philistines, David lamented his passing: "I grieve for you, Jonathan my brother; you were very dear to me. Your love for me was wonderful, more wonderful than that of women" (2 Samuel 1:26).

Few are people blessed with such committed friendship. And that's what I wish for in every friendship I am involved with... Friendship is not a flippant relationship. It is consistent and unfailing love. Walang iwanan!

Courtesy: CTAN [Thread: Kaleidoscope World (ctan's random musings)]


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Enjoy ko magbasa ng PGG Forum ngayon.

[Rhigan]

Booger pala huh!!!! *flying kick* *floorslam!*

(bromance eh, so lambingan lang between guys... hehehe...   

Mas gusto ko yan

[Rhigan]

BROmance:

Gusto ko din hahah ILOVE YOU MGA TOL