Para sa lahat ng masama ang loob...

[pong]

i forgive easily, sometimes even instantly, basta may marining ako from that person that thugs my heart.

unfortunately, i don't forget, kahit iuntog ko pa ang ulo ko.


how does one forget?

Yung forget naman kasi sa "Forgive and Forget" hindi naman literal na forget iyon eh. Unless ulyanin ka or may Dementia. Hindi mo talaga agad iyon makakalimutan, it is how you would bear it, kahit na sinabi mong na-forgive mo na yung trespasser pero kapag iniisip mo yung offense nya sa iyo eh parang affected ka pa rin or may impact pa rin sa iyo yun, hindi ka pa rin nakaka-forget. Forget siguro in a simple way means moving on.

^may point ka diyan pero may mga bagay na hindi dapat pino-forget basta-basta.

[darkstar13]

Yung forget naman kasi sa "Forgive and Forget" hindi naman literal na forget iyon eh. Unless ulyanin ka or may Dementia. Hindi mo talaga agad iyon makakalimutan, it is how you would bear it, kahit na sinabi mong na-forgive mo na yung trespasser pero kapag iniisip mo yung offense nya sa iyo eh parang affected ka pa rin or may impact pa rin sa iyo yun, hindi ka pa rin nakaka-forget. Forget siguro in a simple way means moving on.

consequentially, then, I will rephrase my question:

How does one move on?

I know someone from way back a decade.
Hindi ko pa rin nakakalimutan.
Wala namang kami pinagawayan or anything.
Pero parang naka-hang pa rin ako upto now, waiting, dahil parang iniwan lang ako sa ere.


o well. life.

[noyskie]

OT:
Hello Guys, a blessed weekday to all!
Wala lang share ko lang, I attended a Retreat(It's called Encounter with Christ Retreat) last weekend and grabe, it was an awesome experience. Receiving God makes me feel free from all the pains inside me. Lahat ng burdens, nawala. Yung mga sama ng loob na sinabi ko dito sa thread, nailabas ko lahat pati yung mga itinago ko na tumagal na for Decades. hehehe. Hindi lang tinik ang nabunot sa dibdib ko, parang pako na ata. hahaha...Ayun lang, nag-share lang sa inyo. Kaya guys, if ever you need and want to erradicate the grievances in your life, just seek God. If you are having a hard time, maraming nandito sa forum na makakatulong sa inyo. Yun lang god bless!

ECR pala tawag niyo; sa amin naman EGR... kakaconduct lang namin sa Ifugao nito...

[alternative09]

Badtrip!!!

[vir]

Badtrip!!!

o bakit?ano problema..may maitutulong ba kami?..

[judE_Law]

tama na... okay?!

[alternative09]

Badtrip!!!

o bakit?ano problema..may maitutulong ba kami?..

sa work yun..pero okay na ako..

[vir]

^ gud to hear that..read pala 

[jazaustria]

BAD TRIP din ako sa office kanina!

[ctan]

re: forgive and forget

sa akin, hindi ako naniniwala sa forgive and forget. forgiveness is possible even if you don't forget. we are mere humans. imperfect as we are, the feelings of hurt will always come back. but even if you feel that same hurt, the way you see your offender will be the determining factor whether you have really forgiven someone or not...

[pong]

re: forgive and forget

sa akin, hindi ako naniniwala sa forgive and forget. forgiveness is possible even if you don't forget. we are mere humans. imperfect as we are, the feelings of hurt will always come back. but even if you feel that same hurt, the way you see your offender will be the determining factor whether you have really forgiven someone or not...

doc: :~~~~~~~(

epistaxis yun!


tama, doc. laging babalik at babalik yung mga moments na nasasaktan ka. minsan, thankful ako na masyado akong winalangya nung bata ako (elementary days) para maging matatag nung HS at college. hindi naman ako honor student pero iritable ang mga kaklase ko noon. kaya lang ang epekto noon, masyado akong naging cynical. masyadong cynical sa mga mababait. nakapagpatawad na ako pero naka-program na yung utak ko na huwag siyang i-delete sa recycle bin. andoon pa rin

[darkstar13]

hindi nga siguro talaga possible yung forget,
pero alam mo yun feeling na hindi ka na nasasaktan kapag naaalala mo yung tao,
siguro yun ang forget dun -- nakalimutan na ng puso mo yung masakit na naramdaman mo.

i do believe time heals all wounds.
the question for me is how long would that take.

[pong]

hindi nga siguro talaga possible yung forget,
pero alam mo yun feeling na hindi ka na nasasaktan kapag naaalala mo yung tao,
siguro yun ang forget dun -- nakalimutan na ng puso mo yung masakit na naramdaman mo.

i do believe time heals all wounds.
the question for me is how long would that take.

how long? dipende kung gaano kasakit.

[darkstar13]

hmmm.

when my ex went 'missing' (as in iniwan ako sa ere) after three weeks na naging kami,
tatlong buwan akong baliw at hindi makausap ng matino. hindi ko kasi ma-let go dahil
talagang walang dahilan, hindi ko alam, bigla na lang syang nawala.

sa mga kaibigan ko, minsan mabilis lang kahit matagal pinagsamahan namin.
kasi, alam ko yung dahilan. kumbaga, may closure.


pero like now, hindi ko mahanap yung closure eh, kaya apat na buwan na,
bitter pa rin ako, haha

[ctan]

like physical wounds, there will always be scars... hurts that are forever etched in you. but like physical wounds too, a scar won't hurt anymore, unless it will be traumatized again...