Magbabago ka o Tatanggapin ka niya?

[judE_Law]

Napanood ko lang kanina sa TV.. naisip ko magandang pag-usapan dito sa forum.

[pong]

^ good morning sir! mmm... mahirap na usapin ito. baka mapa-away ako T_T

[vir]

dapat give and take, kung tanggap mo xa, dapat ganun din xa sau..kung ayaw mo naman magbago,dapat wag mo rin pilitin baguhin nya yung ayaw mo sa kanya..

[judE_Law]

dapat give and take, kung tanggap mo xa, dapat ganun din xa sau..kung ayaw mo naman magbago,dapat wag mo rin pilitin baguhin nya yung ayaw mo sa kanya..

ayos ah...

tama nga naman. eh pero kung papano, wala namang dapat baguhin dun sa isa?

[vir]

^ dapat tanggapin ka nya kasi tanggap mo lahat sa kanya eh..

kumplikado nga tong issue na to..hehe..

[jazaustria]

makapag poll lang din! haha 

[ram013]

In my opinion: You don't love a person for what you want them to be...
pag ginawa mo yan para mo na ring sinabi na mahal mo ang sarili mo..
love them for who they are..

Sbi nga ng kanta: Love me for what I am and for simply being me
Don't love me. For what you intend. Or hope that I will be

[noyskie]

magbabago ako kung ito'y ikabubuti ko at ng relasyon namin.

[marvinofthefaintsmile]

and if you're only using me
to feed your fantasies..

you're really not in love so let me go..
I must be free..,

[judE_Law]

In my opinion: You don't love a person for what you want them to be...
pag ginawa mo yan para mo na ring sinabi na mahal mo ang sarili mo..
love them for who they are..

Sbi nga ng kanta: Love me for what I am and for simply being me
Don't love me. For what you intend. Or hope that I will be

ayun oh.. na-LSS na...

[joshgroban]

magbago for good ...yes...pero para baguhin ang pagkatao ko mahirap yun....

[alternative09]

My opinion in different point of views..

1. Magbago ako - possible,thats why we a have a thing called learning from our mistakes..kahit di nya sinabing magbago ka, past experiences can make u change for the better.

2. Tatanggapin nya ako - possible, if she loves me then she will accept me for who i am and not for who i am not..tapos papasok na dito yung magbabago ako..because di naman pwedeng puro acceptance lang, in return pwede rin magbago para mas maging ok ang relationship.

3. Magbago sya - possible, but not very necessary..acceptance is a factor but it will be much appreciated kung magbabago sya kahit konti.

4. Tanggapin sya - possible, love breaks all the rules. hindi pwedeng idealistic masyado, meron at meron din talagang flaws..afterall, nobody's perfect...if she lacks something, i'll be the one to fill her shortcomings but in time she will learn to change her ways, kasi matututunan nya yun from me...so magbabago pa rin...


so i guess the common denominator for this one is magbabago..

sabagay, change is constant..

[solomon]

Kung baliw na baliw ako sa kanya, baka pwede pa na ako ang magbago para sa kanya

Kung hindi naman, tanggapin nya kung ano ako at tatanggapin ko din sya ng maluwag sa loob ko

[pong]

What is the threshold for accepting and changing for a person you love?

perhaps, acceptance is an indicator of love and changing one's attitude is an indication of concern. you might learn to love a woman despite her fickle-mindedness, her tantrums and even her unintelligible logic. kaya nga may kanta na: "have you ever really loved a woman" ni bryan adams.

May mga times na alam mo na ganun na talaga ang ugali ng tao,
after having several instances wherein you have talked things out , argued about it, etc
Subalit, ikaw, sa sarili mo, hindi mo alam kung kaya mo bang tanggapin na ganun na talaga sya.

siguro, you are not deeply in love. ewan ko, in my own definition i need to love a woman unconditionally para masabi kong mahal ko siya.

Where do we draw the line?

the line between acceptance and instilling change? i guess it's the level of love. you are not deeply in love if you impel her something that you just don't want. the same with friends. you are not good friends when you look something to him/her which is not in accordance with your standards. and it's plain easy, the line that separates them is real love.

[darkstar13]

uhm, iba yung sagot mo sa tanong ko.