Victim of bullying.

[noyskie]

In my opinion, hindi nawawala ang mga bully dahil maraming insecure na tao na tinatago ang insecurities sa pambubully sa iba. Yung iba naman on the other hand ay nambubully dahil nabully din sila dati which creates a domino effect.

When I was in highschool, a classmate of mine always has something to say about me. Like, "tumayo ka nga ng maayos, pangit mo tingnan"; "ayusi mo yang damit mo, mukha kang pulubi"; "kumain ka nga madami, para kang bangkay"; etc... I get it from him almost everyday. I just ignore him.

Nagkataon na iisa ang gusto naming babae; siya, lagi niya tinatawagan sa bahay nila(landline, di pa uso cellphone nun). ako, naman wala ginagawa kasi torpedo ako. Nung college, dun ako nagkalakas ng loob manligaw; naging ok kami ng babae and dun ko nalaman na binasted pala siya ng babae. Eh same college lang kami ng guy na yun, tuloy yuko na lang siya 'pag nagkakasalubong kami. But i never meant to make him feel bad, it just happened.

And yes, bullying also happen in the workplace. You just have to be mature enough when to and not to react. Also, know when to raise a flag.

Lastly, just a piece of advice; though it is nice to release your stress and problems with your online buddies, it is much healthier if you could have someone to talk it with in the real world, like a close friend, your siblings or your parents.
You can be anyone online; kaso 'pag na attach ka sa virtual world, you might live in a lie, lying to yourself, lying to others. Katulad sa isa kong kakilala, akala niya he's the best in everything kasi that's what he is in his virtual world, "ako, kaya ko to..."; "ako nga..."; "ako, parating..."; and he doesn't realize that he's making other people hate him.

opinion ko lang...

[SuperBazor]

Thank you po sa advice.... Sa ngayon ay okay na ako.... Wala na yung pasa malapit sa nipple ko dahil natwist intentionally yung balat. Nag iinvest na rin ako ng time kasi instead na iimprove ang quantity ng friends, quality na lang at iyon ay real world. Nahanap ko na rin ang problem ko kung bakit may vicious cycle ako ng depression. Iyon ay aking mga SOCIALLY CONDITIONED GOALS AT EGO DRIVEN GOALS. (Guilty..... whahahaha)

[marvinofthefaintsmile]

^ta-ma, the first step to solving ur problem is to acknowledge your problem first.

[SuperBazor]

Hi kuya Marvs. nakaktuwa yung blog mo na hunk rider. hahahaha.

BTW... Honestly, I find this forum to be more comfortable than the real world because everyone here is mature enough to ask an advice rather than from my immature classmates who are very bad infleunce, Not to generalize pero true. Sa kanila nga ako natuto mag mura pero controlled naman.... What I cannot accept is their habits. A lot of them smoke, drink and go home late at night. I am just not one of them. Everyone is just too arrogant. But the good thing is, my teachers always gave me moral support.  Hehehe. Not to shabby I think pero I am trying my best to be friend them. Kaso, a lot of times ako pinagtritripan.

Telling my parents about my bullying problem? Wag na... Graduating ako at di ko hahayaang makompromiso iyon... Friends? Not so much kasi busy sa love life.... ewan ko ba pero halatang di marunong magbalanse... pero I am not bitter, hahaha. Valentines man wala akong pakialam dahil I have goals.... (Pero kailangan ng alteration kasi demotivating yung purpose dahil nagpromise ako sa sarili ko na no hard feelings for goals. Kaso OUTDATED yung goals... I made it while I was in distress.)

[marvinofthefaintsmile]

^thanks! like na like talaga ang blog ko. NI-like pa to mismo ni Jay Taruc ng GMA 7.

Well, ganun tlga pag teenagers.. feeling nila korean mga mature na sila kapag nakahithit ng sigarilyo, o inom ng alcoholic. hindi ako dumaan sa gnun pero sa ibang bgay ako napadpad. well, patapos nmn dn ang pagaaral mo, so much better na just keep it to yourself n lng. isipin mo na bagong mundo ang papasukan mo after mong gumaradweyt. kanta k ng "A whole new world!"

[SuperBazor]

Thanks. Actually I am proud of myself kasi ang smooth sailing ng pagtatapos ng school year...... hehehehe... And..

Wow... Jay Taruc? Whahaha. congratulations... hehehe

[Lanchie]

Eeek. I just had this conversation with my sister and we were trying to recall when we were bullied in school. nothing came to mind but found out something odd.

[SuperBazor]

Anu yung odd kuya?

[mervs]

i am a victim...and i still bear the wounds of abuse

[Lanchie]

Anu yung odd kuya?

We concluded that we were sort of the bullies in school. :-)

[mervs]

sobra sakit nito

[Lanchie]

Not intentionally, anyway. I think we just had bigger personalities.

[mightee]

I was bullied too during grade 1, by a bunch of girls. One time sinabunutan ako. Then another time they took my bag inside the girl's restroom.

[mervs]

I was bullied too during grade 1, by a bunch of girls. One time sinabunutan ako. Then another time they took my bag inside the girl's restroom.

tsk bad girls!

[toperyo]

i was also a victim of bullying when i was grade school,pero ngayon college na ako,everytime na makakasalubong ko yung mga nangbully sakin,they're just smiling at me na parang pare-pare lang(Pano mas matangkad ako sa kanila (joke) haha)
well, time changes and its memories as well.