WHAT TO DO WITH DEPRESSION

[marvinofthefaintsmile]

superosmdummi, mas-swerte ka pa kase nakapa mo yung tapakan. Ako hindi eh, nakabigti aq sa sanga ng puno sa labas ng bahay. Hmm.. yung feeling eh parang napipiga ang dila mo at gusto nyang lumabas sa bibig mo. Tapos hindi ka makasigaw for help. Anywy, those were the days.

sa mga depress na pggers dito kailangan itong mga ito. Ito ang naging solusyon ko sa kalungkutan then napakanta na lang aq ng "Just got lucky!".
1. Madaming mga monsters sa mundong ito at kailangan mo itong matanggap.
2. Madami ka ng problema on your own, so tigilan mong problimahin ang ibang tao. Unahin mo ang sarili mo dahil wala nmn silang paki-alam sa yo. Sa mundong ito, sarili mo lang ang importante. Saka mo sila problemahin kapag narating mo na ang "happiness and joy". Mag-care ka lang sa ibang tao kung me mahihita ka.
3. Tigilan mo ang kahahanap ng "approval" sa mga taong nakapaligid sayo. Kung hindi ka nila tanggap for who you are, the hell u shud care bout them, throw them n d trash.
4. kapag ang isang taong mahal mo ay pabigat lang sa buhay mo, throw them n d trash
5. Kumanta ka lagi ng "Boys do fall in love" <-- Ito required mo itong gawin, gagaan ang loob mo dito.

Remember na kapag natutunan mong maging masaya without being dependent to the people around on you. Doon mo mararating ang tunay na "happiness and joy".

[SuperBazor]

Being independent in my case is hard kasi dependent pa rin ako sa parents ko... Pero sa classroom at school? Kilala for being the monster personality na kayang mag endure ng maraming tasks at pressure at very self-reliant ako... Ang problem ko lang ay, di ko mareinvent ang buong sarili ko dahil sa environment. Know what I mean?

[marvinofthefaintsmile]

^then create your own environment. or maybe create another avatar/personality of yours where in you can put all your happiness with it.

[Syndicate]

Well brothers of my kind, don't worry. Habang tumatagal lalo tayong tumitibay sa ganitong sitwasyon. Hindi man ito mawala, still we live in a world na tayo ang depressed.

[marvinofthefaintsmile]

Life is like 90s photography. We develop by the negatives.

[SuperBazor]

Ang ganda naman ng symbolism.... whahaha

[superosmdummi]

superosmdummi, mas-swerte ka pa kase nakapa mo yung tapakan. Ako hindi eh, nakabigti aq sa sanga ng puno sa labas ng bahay. Hmm.. yung feeling eh parang napipiga ang dila mo at gusto nyang lumabas sa bibig mo. Tapos hindi ka makasigaw for help. Anywy, those were the days.

Yeah, maybe I am. But it doesn't feel that way. Honestly, may mga times parin na unti unting bumabalik yung feeling, it's so scary. And from time to time I've been thinking of death... What it feels like... What will happen after... those things.


But I will never let these feelings get me. Like Kuya @darkstar said to me, I am more powerful than my thoughts. I will never be overwhelmed ever again. NO!

[SuperBazor]

Good for you.... I am quite easily overwhelmed because maybe I am too young or too serious...

[superosmdummi]

Parehas tayo, ako I am overwhelmed with the things I cannot control and fathom. And in reality no one can actually control his/her life. And I am a man of equations, I understand things if I can slice them down into pieces and do mathematical computations with them. And life isn't like that.

The bottom line is that I was, and still am living inside my fantasy world and every time I go back to reality major shits happen --- saddest moments.

[SuperBazor]

introverts understands a fellow introverts... We just both like to always understand things far more normal person does... Ayaw kasi natin sa.... "Bahala na or pwede na yan." We like it planned and smooth. Pero we are lucky rin... may mga classmates ako na medyo naiingit sa akin dahil ang peaceful daw ng buhay ko at ang versatile daw ng personality ko... Do you know the term Ambivert? I just encountered it few minutes ago... di ko pa nareresearch.. hehehe

[superosmdummi]

I get the part that my life's versatile but I do not think mine's peaceful. And that "bahala na" attitude was never a part of me. An example of which is kapag may group report, some of your groupmates will say bahala na pero I won't... okay lang sa akin to do all the researches and explain everything (if I have to). I never understand that kind of attitude, wala namang patutunguhan yan eh.

I am more of an ambivert (both introvert and extrovert), there are times na I share things the way an extrovert does there are times naman na I keep things like an introvert.

[marvinofthefaintsmile]

Parehas tayo, ako I am overwhelmed with the things I cannot control and fathom. And in reality no one can actually control his/her life. And I am a man of equations, I understand things if I can slice them down into pieces and do mathematical computations with them. And life isn't like that.

The bottom line is that I was, and still am living inside my fantasy world and every time I go back to reality major shits happen --- saddest moments.

I separate mine in http://hunkrideradventures.blogspot.com

[SuperBazor]

I've read one article in your blog kuya marvs... Whahaha. Yung nag ikot ka sa may bandang southern luzon at karamihan ay about haunted houses. whahahaha.

[marvinofthefaintsmile]

I've read one article in your blog kuya marvs... Whahaha. Yung nag ikot ka sa may bandang southern luzon at karamihan ay about haunted houses. whahahaha.

mdami pa aqng kwento dun, dpat binbasa mo. the thing kase sa buhay ng mga pinoy is pinipigilan nating maging masaya. aq hindi, so kaht magisa lang aq at d alam ang mangyayare sa patututnguhan ay sinusuong q dahil un ang happiness sa akn..

maglalakbay ako patungo sa kawalan
Upang habulin ko ang pangarap sa buhay
At susu-ungin ko itong kadiliman.
Makita ko lang ang liwanag..
ng Katarungan

[SuperBazor]

Idol tlga... I wonder kung paano mo nagagawa yun? Ang hirap kasi lalo na at di pa ako financially independent. Pero plano ko naman na as soon as possible ay magawa ko iyon. whahaha.